Friendship as a Motivator in Recovery

In recovery people often talk about sponsorship.  This is someone who will guide you through your sobriety and the Twelve Steps to remain clean and sober.  

But, there is another aspect of recovery that is just as important; making friends.  For anyone in recovery, long term sobriety is strongly associated with the connections made in the rooms of Alcoholics or Narcotics Anonymous.

Just like the workplace developing strong relationships adds to the quality of a person’s life. A recent article discusses the benefits of having positive relationships at work. 

So, the alcoholic or addict needs to build friendships to be content and lead a fulfilling life in sobriety. 

One former patient discussed the value of such a friendship.  This patient after leaving treatment went to meetings on a regular basis. He did not have a vehicle.  Therefore, he would ride his bike to meetings and work.  Yet, after a while, he met a gentleman who offered to pick him up and take him to meetings and work.

A friendship developed and they spent more time together.  Thus, they started enjoying each other’s company and would talk a lot about living sober.   

The gentleman was not this person’s sponsor.  He was just another alcoholic helping a friend out. 

One day, they were out eating lunch.  The former patient mentioned that he was having thoughts about wanting to relapse.  His friend looked at him and simply said, “I don’t want to see you do that”. 

The sincerity in this man’s eyes and the tone of his voice was so caring that the thought of drinking again did not seem appealing anymore.

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  • Sandra Rasmussen
    May 21, 2020 8:16 pm

    During my active addiction, I alienated my family and most of my friends. Men and women from A.A. and N.A. supported me with their recovery and friendship: rides, setting up the meeting room, making coffee, and group picnics on holiday. Thank you all!

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